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14 April 2025

The Bread of Affliction – Part III - Becoming Great, Acquiring Perfection, Q&A

The Bnei Yisrael were rewarded by becoming better and better;
they became the greatest generation that ever lived. They

were being prepared in Mitzrayim for that greatest scenario of

history: Maamad Har Sinai (the giving of the Torah at Sinai).

Their preparation began with slavery and persecution, and as

a result they cried out to Hashem. When the Torah tells us that

the Bnei Yisrael cried out, it doesn’t mean that each individual

cried out They cried out together to Hashem. They didn’t

daven, they simply cried out. Whenever they could, multitudes

of Bnei Yisrael got together, weeping and shouting and crying

out to Hashem. That is what Hashem was referring to when He

said, “”V’gam ani shamati es naakas Bnei Yisrael — And also I

have heard the cries of the Bnei Yisrael.” These outcries led to

such a clear awareness of Hashem that they paved the way for

Maamad Har Sinai. By crying out to Hashem, the Bnei Yisrael

prepared themselves to see Him face to face at Har Sinai.


The gemara tells us that Megillas Taanis was the first thing

that was written after the kisvei hakodesh (the 24 books of

Tanach). The gemara says that it was written by Chananya

ben Chizkiya ben Doron among a company of great men. Why

did they write it? “She’haya mechabed b’yimos hatzaros —

They loved times of trouble.” Obviously they didn’t love the

tzaros (troubles) themselves; they loved the tzaros because

they helped them accomplish great things. These men wrote

down all the events in our history since the closing of the

Tanach, and they made yamim tovim whenever these tzaros

were over. It doesn’t say that they loved the redemption and

therefore they celebrated each time they were rescued from a

certain trouble, no. They understood the potential for greatness

inherent in the difficulties Hashem sent. These difficulties

refined our character; they elevated us to new levels of

daas (knowledge of) Hashem. We cried out to Hashem, and

Hashem answered us because of the greatness we gained by

crying out to Him.


Because the Bnei Yisrael cried out in Mitzrayim, they

reached such greatness that they became the most perfect

of any generation in history. After all, weren’t they the ones

who received the Torah? They stood at Har Sinai and heard

the voice of Hashem. Did any other people hear the voice

of Hashem? It was only for them that Hashem split the sea.

Only they ate mann in the desert. Do you think it was because

Hashem couldn’t give them regular food in the desert? He

gave them mann in order to teach them that “Poseiach es yadecha

u’masbia l’chol chai ratzon — Open your hand and He

will satisfy the will of every living being” (Ashrei). Hashem is

the creator of this miracle.


Despite their greatness and their closeness to Hashem,

this great generation has been criticized and maligned by the

teachers. We were all taught about how sinful the generation

that left Mitzrayim was, how obstinate they were, how troublesome

they were. Obviously, we were taught this in order to

chastise them and chastise us. But the truth is that the generation

of Bnei Yisrael that left Mitzrayim became great because

of their difficulties. They are the ones who were chosen

by Hashem to be the witnesses to the greatest events in our

history. To this day, we look through their eyes at the giving

of the Torah, through their eyes we see the splitting of the sea.

They testify to us.


Acquiring Perfection

How did they gain that perfection? Lechem oni, it was the

bread of affliction that they ate in Mitzrayim that made them

great. Lechem she’onim alav devarim harbei, their affliction

and their crying out caused many great things. When a person

has troubles, chalila, he should know that Hashem is bestowing

on him a very great happiness. V’ozel lo, when the time will

come, az yishallel, he is going to be proud of the daas Hashem

that he developed when he cried out to Hashem.


But what about us? Baruch Hashem we are not suffering.

Baruch Hashem we’re not crying out from tzaros. What

should we do? We’re left out in the cold! The answer is that

there are two kinds of crying out. We discussed crying out

from pain, but there is another way of crying out. “Enu

l’Hashem b’soda — Cry out to Hashem with thanksgiving”

(Tehillim 147:7). That’s also oneh, it’s a form of crying out

to Hashem. Instead of crying out of pain, it’s crying out of

gratitude. When you say Bircas Hamazon, thank Hashem for

the food enthusiastically! Don’t whisper the words quietly,

cry them out loud. When nobody is listening, say the words,

ah, Hashem, I love You! Say it. Open your mouth and praise

Hashem.


When you cry out to Hashem in happiness, you can achieve

more daas Hashem than when you cry out in sadness and

pain. The rich man who praises Hashem is greater than the

poor man who cries out to Hashem. The poor man cries out

because he has no choice, and nevertheless Hashem loves

him. Hashem loves poor people because they cry out all the

time. Rich men don’t cry out. But suppose you are the kind of

rich man that does cry out? Suppose you’re an affluent person,

you have good health, you’re young, you have plenty to

eat, and you cry out to Hashem in gratitude. In that case, you

have reached a tremendous level of closeness to Hashem; a

level that is even closer than the poor people who cry out.


The Chovos Halevavos says that the highest level of perfection

is when a person is a baal teshuva (penitent person)

despite the fact that he is happy, successful and does not

have any difficulties in life. Our homes today are so luxurious;

we have heating, running water, a telephone, a refrigerator,

everything. Not long ago a home like ours today was

unimaginable. When I was a bachur (student) in Europe no

body even dreamed of these things. But don’t make any mistake;

you have to thank Hashem for all these conveniences.


When you walk to your refrigerator, say baruch Hashem I

have a refrigerator. Isn’t that a silly idea? Who doesn’t have a

refrigerator? The refrigerator was given to us for one purpose,

enu l’Hashem b’soda, that we thank Hashem for it. You’re obligated

to do that. When I came to Slabodka as a young American

bachur, no one had running water in the house at all.

Then I appreciated cold running water. Hot running water?

Unthinkable. When I was a boy we heated our house by coal

stove. In the kitchen it was warm, but the rest of the house

was cold. I used to lie on the floor and read books near the

coal stove. Central heating was an unheard-of luxury. You

have radiators, you’re wealthy. You have to thank Hashem,

you have to pay the price. Think of how fortunate we are, baruch

Hashem, to have a warm house, ah, we thank You Hashem,

we love You Hashem. Baruch Hashem for every kind of

convenience and comfort.


And don’t forget to thank Hashem for the fact that you

have a bathroom in your house. That is also a tremendous

luxury. In Slabodka, going to the bathroom at night during

the winter was no small feat. I would put on my overcoat and

big rubber boots and wade through the snow out in that dark

yard to the outhouse, which a half block away from where I

was sleeping. We had no conveniences at all. You have everything

right in the comfort of your own home. You are obligated

to thank Hashem for it.


In those days, no one even dreamed of the conveniences

that we have today; they never knew that such things existed.

So when they cried out to Hashem and gained reward, perhaps

some of them didn’t cry out enough. But we live with all

these conveniences and luxuries. We have to recognize that

the world was once bereft of everything. Our greatness is to

take this opportunity to thank Hashem for everything that

He has given us. Thanking Hashem is what will enable us to

achieve perfection in this world, l’maan shemo, for the sake

of His great name. We recognize Hashem’s great name as a

result of the benefit that He showers upon us daily, the food

that He gives us every day, the clothing that He gives us every

day, the comfortable homes and good health that He gives

us every day. Baruch Hashem for everything. By constantly

expressing our thanks to Hashem we become greater and

greater at recognizing His name, and thereby we achieve our

purpose in life.


Question:

What is preferable, crying out to Hashem out of

pain, or abstaining from crying out because everything

that Hashem does is for our benefit?


Answer:

Everyone has to recognize that he is a neshama, a soul, as well

as a body. The body is given to us on loan on condition that we

take care of it. There are tzaddikim who would like to put their

bodies through yesurim, torture, because it will benefit their neshamos.

If they get sick, they will be able to cry out to Hashem

and improve themselves. But it’s a chait, a sin to make yourself

sick. Do you know why? Because the body is not yours. It’s My

body, Hashem says, I gave it to you on condition that you take

care of it and preserve its health.

What if another Jew is suffering? Should others refrain from

crying out to Hashem on his behalf in order to be sameiach in

his yesurim? Of course not. We must cry out for others. And

if, chalila, you are the one who is suffering, you have to cry out

for yourself. This is not a contradiction to being happy with yesurim.

You should thank Hashem for the benefit He’s giving

you, but also cry out from the pain. In this way you will gain

emunah and grow as a result of the yesurim. So both calculations

are true. A tzaddik should take care of his health and go to

a physician when necessary. He should also cry out to Hashem

and ask him for help. At the same time, he should thank Hashem

for the yesurim He sends, because they are for his benefit.

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