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25 May 2026
馃捇 讛讞讝拽转 诪讞砖讘 注"讬 讗讘专讱 讘讛讬讻诇 讛讻讜诇诇? ◄ 爪驻讜 讘诪砖讗 讛转拽讜驻讛 诪诪谞讛讬讙 讛讚讜专 诪专谉 讛专讘 诇谞讚讜 砖诪注诪讬讚 讗转 讛讞讜诪讜转.
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Reb Neuberger: WEBINAR on Shalom Bayis
Esser Agaroth: Can't Recognize the Holiday of Shavuos??
讻砖讛讜驻讻讬诐 讗转 讞讙 讛砖讘讜注讜转 诇诪砖讛讜 讗讞专 讛讜驻讻讬诐 讗转 讛转讜专讛 诇诪砖讛讜 讗讞专
YNET: Shavuot: Same Customs, New Approach (translation)
Water fights, flower garlands, Shavuot night repairs and dairy meals - the holiday’s familiar customs have remained with us for centuries. But amid climate change, environmental awareness and new technologies, Israelis are finding new ways to celebrate Shavuot without giving up the spirit of tradition. Nitzan Pincu | May 13, 2026
Esser Agaroth(2¢):
This piece by Nitzan Pincu, with the participation of the Gad and Remilk Dairies, seems primarily to be a promotion of particular products. Surprisingly, I also happen to agree with a few of the points she makes about out Nevertheless, this is a good opportunity to point out a few notable words and phrases, we should all be aware of, or rather, be wary of.
馃幒讘专砖驻讬 讗砖: 讛诪谞讛讬讙 诪专谉 专讗砖 讛讬砖讬讘讛 专讘讬 讚讜讘 诇谞讚讜 讘专讬拽讜讚 住讜注专 诇讻讘讜讚 讛转讜专讛 讜讛讞转谉 讘砖诪讞转 讛砖讘注 讘专讻讜转 诇转诇诪讬讚讜
馃敟"砖诇讟讜谉 讛专砖注 诪讛专讛 转注拽专 讜转砖讘专!" • 诪砖讗 讛诪诇讞诪讛 讛讛讬住讟讜专讬 砖诇 讛诪谞讛讬讙 讛专讘 诇谞讚讜 砖诇讬讟"讗 诪讜诇 讙讝讬专转 讛砖诇讟讜谞讜转!
诪讗讜转 讗讘专讻讬 讻讜诇诇讬 诪驻注诇讬 讛转讜专讛 讛转讻谞住讜 诇诪注诪讚 谞砖讙讘 讘专讗砖讜转 诪谞讛讬讙 讛讚讜专 专讘讬谞讜 诪专谉 砖诇讬讟"讗 诇专讙诇 住讬讜诐 诪住讻转 砖讘转 讘讞讘讜专转 讛诇讻讛, 讘诪专讻讝讜 讛讗讝讬谞讜 讘讞专讚转 拽讜讚砖 诇诪砖讗 诪谞讛讬讙 讛讚讜专 专讘讬谞讜 诪专谉 砖诇讬讟"讗 砖讛转讬讬讞住 讘讚讘专讬讜 诇专讚讬驻转 诇讜诪讚讬 讛转讜专讛 注"讬 砖诇讟讜谉 讛专砖注: 讘住讬注转讗 讚砖诪讬讗 住讬讬诪转诐 诇讬诪讜讚 诪住讻转 砖讘转 讘注讬讜谉 诪转讜讱 注诪诇讛 砖诇 转讜专讛 讘砖拽讬讚讛 讜讘砖拽讬注讜转 讘转讜专讛 讛拽讚讜砖讛, 讜讗祝 讝讻讬转诐 诇讛讜爪讬讗 诇讗讜专 诪驻专讬 讬讘讜诇讻诐 讘诇讬诪讜讚 讛转讜专讛. 讛拽讚讜砖 讘专讜讱 讬注讝讜专, 砖转讛讬讜 讛诇讗讛 讜讛诇讗讛 砖拽讜注讬诐 讘转讜专讛, 讜转讝讻讜 诇住讬注转讗 讚砖诪讬讗 讘诇讬诪讜讚讻诐. 讛讘专讻讛 讗讞转 讛讬讗 诇专讗砖 讛讻讜诇诇 讛讙讗讜谉 专' 砖诪讜讗诇 讗讜诇诪谉 砖诇讬讟"讗 砖讞驻抓 讛砖诐 讘讬讚讜 讬爪诇讞 诇讛讙讚讬诇 转讜专讛 讜诇讛讗讚讬专讛. 讻讜诇谞讜 讬讜讚注讬诐 砖讛谞谞讜 砖专讜讬讬诐 讘转拽讜驻讛 拽砖讛, 诇讜诪讚讬 讛转讜专讛 谞专讚驻讬诐 注诇 讬讚讬 讛专砖讜讬讜转, 讜讗讬谉 讝讛 住讜讚 讻讬 专讘讬诐 专讘讬诐 诪讘谞讬 讛讬砖讬讘讜转 讜讛讻讜诇诇讬诐 讞讬讬诐 讻讬讜诐 转讞转 讞砖砖 诪讜讞砖讬 诪讙讝专讜转 讛砖诇讟讜谞讜转. 讛讚讘专 讛讬讞讬讚 砖讘讜 讗谞讞谞讜 讬讻讜诇讬诐 诇讛转诪讜讚讚 注诐 讻诇 讛拽砖讬讬诐 讛讗诇讜, 讛诐 注"讬 专讬讘讜讬 注讜讚 讜注讜讚 讘诇讬诪讜讚 讛转讜专讛 诇诇讗 讛专祝, 讛讚讘专讬诐 讛诐 驻砖讜讟讬诐 讗讘诇 讗诪讬转讬讬诐, 讻讻诇 砖谞专讘讛 讘诇讬诪讜讚 讛转讜专讛, 谞讬谞爪诇 诪讻诇 讛讚讘专讬诐 讛讗诇讜, 讻讱 讛讬讛 讘讻诇 讛讚讜专讜转, 诇讜诪讚讬 讛转讜专讛 住讘诇讜 诪拽砖讬讬诐 讜讙讝专讜转, 讜讛讬讗 砖注诪讚讛 诇讗讘讜转讬谞讜 讜诇谞讜, 专拽 讛讗讞讬讝讛 讛讗诪讬爪讛 讘诇讬诪讜讚 讛转讜专讛, 注诪讚讛 诇注讜诇诐 讛转讜专讛 诪讜诇 讻诇 讛专讜讞讜转 讛住讜注专讜转, 讘讻诇 讛转拽讜驻讜转 讜讘讻诇 讛诪讜讘谞讬诐. 讜讻讚讘专讬 讛诪砖谞讛 讘讗讘讜转 '专讘讬 谞讞讜谞讬讗 讘谉 讛拽谞讛 讗讜诪专 讻诇 讛诪拽讘诇 注诇讬讜 注讜诇 转讜专讛 诪注讘讬专讬谉 诪诪谞讜 注讜诇 诪诇讻讜转 讜注讜诇 讚专讱 讗专抓'. 讜讘驻专讟 讻注转 砖讗谞讜 注讜诪讚讬诐 诇驻谞讬 讬讜诐 诪转谉 转讜专讛, 讜讘讜 诪专讘讬谉 讘诇讬诪讜讚 讛转讜专讛, 谞拽讘诇 注诇 注爪诪谞讜 注讜诇 转讜专讛, 讜谞讝讻讛 砖讬注讘讬专讜 诪讗转谞讜 注讜诇 诪诇讻讜转 讜注讜诇 讚专讱 讗专抓, 讜砖诇讟讜谉 讛专砖注 诪讛专讛 转注拽专 讜转砖讘专. 讜讬讛讬 专爪讜谉 砖谞讞讜讙 讗转 讞讙 讛砖讘讜注讜转 讘砖诪讞讛 砖诇 转讜专讛 讜谞讝讻讛 诇讻诇 诪讬诇讬 讚诪讬讟讘. 讗诪谉. 拽专讚讬讟 转讬注讜讚: 诪谞讞转 讚讘专
From Anti-Zionist Rallies To A Burning Love For Eretz Yisrael
Addenda to Rabbi Miller zt"l
Q:
Is it true that as we get further away from Matan Torah, from the original Shavuos, that the generations deteriorate and we can’t accomplish what the earliest generations accomplished?
A:
Is this process a necessary one, that we deteriorate from generation to generation?
Let me explain to you: there are two general tendencies, two currents in Jewish history, in world history. One is that there is a general deterioration; because the further we go away from Har Sinai, the weaker the impression becomes. A hundred years ago, they were closer to Har Sinai. The impression was stronger. A hundred years ago, they were closer to Rabi Akiva. A hundred years ago, they were closer to the Gra. The Gra was just yesterday a hundred years ago. They still remembered the Gra. Chasidishe Jews a hundred years ago still remembered the talmidim of the Baal Shem Tov. And therefore, the further we go away from our ancient models, certainly it weakens.
But you must know, individuals don’t have to follow that trend. That’s only a general trend, but if it’s an individual, that’s different. An individual can work himself up to extreme greatness if he wants to. The world is still open for man to become great. Men and women can become great today as they became great in the days of old. Even in Duluth, even in San Francisco, if a boy is living there, a Jewish boy, and he decides to choose the ways of Hashem, he can become great. How great? There’s no limit to his greatness. That’s one of the ikrei emunah. He can become a tzaddik like Moshe Rabbeinu. That’s stated in the Rambam (Teshuvah 5:2). Everybody could do it.
It doesn’t mean it’s easy. By no means it’s easy. Of course, if you’re next to Moshe Rabbeinu, it’s easy to be a big tzaddik. If you’re far away from him, it’s not easy. But today it’s still an open opportunity for anybody who wishes to choose the derech of virtue, he can become very great.
24 May 2026
PART IV & V – Shavuos: Support for the Torah, Sitting and Learning Torah, and the Abundance of Bnei Yeshiva
Part IV. The Gift of Torah
Studying the Gift
We’re going to spend a few minutes now speaking about the best way, the most important way, of showing our gratitude for the gift of Torah. And that’s the subject of studying the Torah. Because it’s a wonderful thing to have a Shas on your bookshelf, to display it the way a kallah is proud to display the jewelry her chosson gave her, but that’s only the beginning.
Because what does it mean you appreciate the Torah? Here’s a Gemara. It’s closed; it stays on the shelf.
“Oh, but don’t You see how happy I was on Shavuos? Of course I appreciate it to no end,” he says.
So Hashem says, “What do you mean, ‘I appreciate it’? Open it up!” Appreciation means you have the desire to make use of it. If somebody gives you a gift and you never use the gift, he’s disappointed. So Hashem said, “Open up the Gemara; that’s called appreciating it.”
And therefore, Shavuos includes both things. Fundamentally, it’s hakoras hatov and happiness for the giving of the Torah, but the hakoras hatov requires that we should utilize that gift. And so it’s learning Torah, that’s the number one happiness of Shavuos, the number one way of showing appreciation for the gift of the Torah.
All Night With The Satmerer Rav
That’s why there’s an old minhag to stay up on Shavuos night learning Torah. Now, it’s not a mitzvah min haTorah. It’s not even a takanas Chachomim. But the Am Yisroel does it. Of course, if someone is ill, physically weak, then I’m not saying anything. I’m not telling you to stay up all night if you have any chashoshos, any suspicions, about your health. But the idea is we want to show that learning Torah is so important that we can’t even go to sleep.
A long time ago, when the old Satmerer Rav was still alive, I went to visit him. I was supposed to do something, a job, for him — I was the one who composed the first New York Times advertisement against the Zionists. I was the one to compose it, so I went in to ask him to give me a bracha that I should succeed. I was up all night writing that article. Over and over again, I went over it. All night I was up because it was important!
And so on the night before we’re going to accept the Torah, we want to show how important it is, how much we appreciate it, so we stay up all night learning — at least I hope you’re learning. Because included in the great gift of Torah that Hashem gave us is the tremendous privilege that we are allowed to study His words, His thoughts. That’s what we say in the bracha, 谞ָ转ַ谉 诇ָ谞讜ּ 转ּ讜ֹ专ָ转讜ֹ – it’s His Torah, His thoughts, His attitudes. And it’s 转ּ讜ֹ专ַ转 讗ֱ诪ֶ转, those are the only true attitudes in the universe. And nothing in the world, even mitzvos and maasim tovim, is bigger than that.
Greater than Riches
Let me explain that. There are two pessukim. One says, 讜ְ讻ָ诇 讞ֲ驻ָ爪ֶ讬讱ָ 诇ֹ讗 讬ִ砖ְׁ讜讜ּ 讘ָ讛ּ – all of your desirable things cannot equal to the Torah (Mishlei 3:15). All the things that people love in this world — people love wealth, they love honor, they love pleasure, they love their wives, their children — it’s nothing compared to the Torah.
Here’s a millionaire — a true story — a multimillionaire who’s going from one of his places where he has a big business to another place, a big business, and he has a minute in between. That minute in between, he takes a sefer and learns. And he knows that those few words are worth more than all his property that he has. 讻ָּ诇 讞ֲ驻ָ爪ֶ讬讱ָ 诇ֹ讗 讬ִ砖ְׁ讜讜ּ 讘ָ讛ּ – Whatever he has is not equal, 诇ְ讚ָ讘ָ专 讗ֶ讞ָ讚 诪ִ谉 讛ַ转ּ讜ֹ专ָ讛 – to that one mishnah he learned (Yerushalmi, Peah 1:1). Nothing is more desirable than the Torah.
Greater than a Spouse
A yeshiva bochur once told me he was going out with a girl and she heard something like that, so she said to him, “I won’t play second fiddle to a Gemara.” He came and told me this story.
I told him, “If that’s so, then drop that shidduch.” Because she doesn’t understand. A wife is second fiddle to a Gemara. And, by the way, a husband is second fiddle to the Torah too. Same thing. Because 讻ָּ诇 讞ֲ驻ָ爪ֶ讬讱ָ 诇ֹ讗 讬ִ砖ְׁ讜讜ּ 讘ָ讛ּ – everything in the world, everything you love, is subservient to the Torah.mishnah
Greater than Mitzvos
But there’s another possuk, 讜ְ讻ָ诇 讞ֲ驻ָ爪ִ讬诐 诇ֹ讗 讬ִ砖ְׁ讜讜ּ 讘ָ讛ּ; instead of “your desires,” it says, “all desirable things” (ibid. 8:11). It means even things that Hashem desires, 诇ֹ讗 讬ִ砖ְׁ讜讜ּ 讘ָ讛ּ, cannot compare to the Torah. What does that mean that Torah is greater than all of the things that “Hashem desires”? It means that even all the mitzvos of the Torah cannot compare l’davar echad min haTorah, to one word of Torah learning (Yerushalmi, ibid.).
A tremendous statement! Even as we say the words it’s hard to believe. All the mitzvos of the Torah are not as important as one statement or one word of learning Torah. Of course, it’s with a condition — it’s only if you’re learning in order to be an oved Hashem, to study His words. You have to learn Torah lishmah. That’s why even little children, you have to remind them, “My little boy, you’re learning 讘ְּ专ֵ讗砖ִׁ讬转 讘ָּ专ָ讗 讗ֱ诇ֹ拽ִ讬诐, and you’re able to say the possuk very well. Excellent! I’m so proud of you! But remember, you’re learning because Hakadosh Baruch Hu commanded us to learn Torah. We’re doing His service.”
But once you add that intention, so one line of Torah is more important than all the mitzvos put together. It’s astonishing! Not only is one word of Torah study greater than all the things you desire in this world — wealth and happiness, nachas, long years — but it’s greater than all the mitzvos in the world; tefillin and mezuzos and tzitzis and matzah and korban pesach, all the obligations of the Torah cannot compare to davar echad, one word of the Torah. 讬ְ拽ָ专ָ讛 讛ִ讬讗 诪ִ驻ְּ谞ִ讬谞ִ讬诐 – The Torah is more important than the diamonds and pearls and sapphires of mitzvos.
One Line of Greatness
It means when you sit down and open a Gemara, it’s such a tremendous happiness, such a great achievement, that it outdoes, it far outdoes all the good things together. When you’re sitting down to learn one line of the Gemara, it’s considered better than all the mitzvos and maasim tovim that Hakadosh Baruch Hu could give you to do.
I know that’s a very difficult idea for us to accept. It’s very far away from our ideals today because we’re far from emes. We think maybe it’s just propaganda — I’m just trying to convince you to come to the Torah classes here.[1] But actually it’s one hundred percent emes. To sit and learn a line of Gemara is better than all the mitzvos.
Greater Than Life Itself
Of course, if you have to do a mitzvah and you’re sitting in front of the Gemara, you have to stop learning to do the mitzvah. Just like you have to stop learning to save a Jewish life, and still the Gemara says, 讙ְּ讚讜ֹ诇ָ讛 转ַּ诇ְ诪讜ּ讚 转ּ讜ֹ专ָ讛 讬讜ֹ转ֵ专 诪ֵ讛ַ爪ָּ诇ַ转 谞ְ驻ָ砖ׁ讜ֹ转 – learning Torah is more important than saving lives (Megillah 16b). Certainly you have to stop learning for hatzalas nefashos, certainly. You have to stop Torah for kiddush levanah too. But still, the time that you were busy with that is deducted from your Torah perfection, and when Hakadosh Baruch Hu doesn’t send such a mitzvah to a Jew and allows him to study the Torah in peace, he’s more fortunate.
Now you’ll ask, how can that be? If I have to stop, how can it be that I don’t get the same perfection? So fifty-nine years ago I asked this question to one of my rebbes, Reb Avrohom zichrono livracha. Now what he said I won’t tell you now — ask me afterwards — but that’s the fact; the mitzvos of the Torah are not as great a privilege as the mitzvah of studying Torah. It can’t be helped; Torah is too important.
And that’s why the halacha is that if there’s a mitzvah to be done and someone offers to do it and you yourself are able to learn Torah in that same time, so let him do it and you choose to learn Torah instead. Because the greatest gift given to mankind is perfection in the Torah; you’re putting into your mind the machshavos of the Borei Olam, and that’s the greatest of all achievements, to think like Hakadosh Baruch Hu thinks. When you think like Hakadosh Baruch Hu thinks, that’s the greatest perfection of a person; it’s the most tremendous change you can make in yourself.
Toras Nashim
Now, how do women do that? Women encourage their husbands to learn Torah. They say, “Chaim, go to the shiur,” “Chaim, go to the yeshiva.” 谞ָ砖ִׁ讬诐 讘ְּ诪ַ讗讬 拽ָ讗 讝ַ讻ְ讬ָ谉 – How do women achieve that greatness? 讘ְּ讗ַ转ְ谞讜ֹ讬ֵ讬 讙ַּ讘ְ专ַ讬ְ讛讜ּ 讘ֵּ讬 专ַ讘ָּ谞ַ谉 – They encourage their husbands to learn (Brachos 17a). She says, “Go out of the house, go to the beis hamedrash.”
Also, 讘ְּ讗ַ拽ְ专讜ֹ讬ֵ讬 讘ְּ谞ַ讬ְ讛讜ּ 诇ְ讘ֵ讬 讻ְ谞ִ讬砖ְׁ转ָּ讗 – she sends her children off to the cheder, and when they come home, too, she encourages them more to learn more.
They come back from the yeshiva: “Mommy, but we learned all day long.”
“Never mind. Take a Chumash and sit down and review the Chumash here. Get in the habit of learning by yourself.”
And the children sit at night and they learn. They get into the habit. 讻ָּ诇 讘ַּ讬ִ转 砖ֶׁ谞ִּ砖ְׁ诪ָ注ִ讬诐 讘ּ讜ֹ 讚ִּ讘ְ专ֵ讬 转ּ讜ֹ专ָ讛 讘ַּ诇ַּ讬ְ诇ָ讛 – A house where you hear divrei Torah at night, 砖ׁ讜ּ讘 讗ֵ讬谞讜ֹ 谞ֶ讞ֱ专ַ讘 – that house can’t be destroyed (Eiruvin 18b). It’s a blessed house. It’s forever.
A Full Partner
And she’s blessed even more than the house because she gets one hundred percent credit in all the Torah that is learned. You know, in the olden times everybody knew that. That’s why women up till a hundred years ago strove to marry bnei Torah. You went in small towns in the stores, women stood in the stores alone and the husbands were sitting in the beis hamedrash all day long. There were very many eidims on kest in the small towns. That’s how it used to be.
Every beis hamedrash was like a yeshiva because the women tried their best that the husbands should be lamdanim. And every woman knew that she is going to go to Gan Eden holding onto her husband’s kapoteh. That’s how they used to say. It’s not a joke! She knew that she would go to Gan Eden with her husband’s merit of his Torah.
讜ְ讛ָ讬讜ּ 诇ְ讘ָ砖ָׂ专 讗ֶ讞ָ讚 – A husband and a wife are not two people. They’re two parts of a personality. Consider your face; it gets credit from what your feet walked. If your feet walk in a good place, your face remains intact. If your feet walk where there is traffic, your face won’t remain intact. And so the wife, when she urges her husband to go and learn, and does other things to facilitate his learning, so she has a full partnership in all of his Torah. And that’s going to be the greatest happiness.
Torah in the Kitchen
Besides, I passed through a kitchen once. The entrance was through the kitchen and so I had to walk through the kitchen. The woman of the house was busy cooking. I looked at the kitchen table. There was a Rambam open with her glasses where she was keeping the place. She was learning Rambam!
So why can’t you? A lot of women can learn Rambam. Women can’t learn accounting? Women can’t learn complicated subjects? Why can’t they learn lashon kodesh? They can learn Rambam. A woman can learn Kuzari if she has time — of course, a woman shouldn’t have any time; a woman should have a kitchen full of babies and she should be busy all day with them. That’s the biggest kind of learning! If a woman is raising children, that’s her Mesichta Brachos, Mesichta Shabbos, Mesichta Pesachim, Mesichta Eiruvin. That’s everything. That’s her Shas. You can give away a Shas anytime for a family — a family is worth more than a Shas. Her children, that’s a glorious library of Torah.
The Torah of Gratitude
And so learning on Shavuos is not only for the mitzvah itself. It’s an expression of gratitude, of happiness, of appreciation for the gift of Torah. And it’s for after Shavuos too. If you have a minute to learn, to learn one word of Torah, just one word, it’s worth everything; it’s more than all of your possessions, all your properties. But it’s also a great expression of gratitude. And so even though you’re a busy man making a living, whenever you have a chance, you go back to your learning, even for a few minutes.
Sometimes you can learn more than a few minutes. You can learn Torah in your lunch hour. You can learn in your evenings. There are shiurim you can attend. Sometimes you even have hours and hours; on Shabbos, Friday night, motzei Shabbos. Some people don’t work on Sundays. Then there’s Yom Tov and Chol Hamoed, all kinds of opportunities. And the man who knows what Shavuos is, he understands that he’s busy with millions and millions of pounds of diamonds. 讗ֲ砖ֶׁ专 谞ָ转ַ谉 诇ָ谞讜ּ 转ּ讜ֹ专ַ转 讗ֱ诪ֶ转! That’s the gift of all gifts!
Part V. Appreciating the Gift
Lift Off
And so we come back now to what we began with, the tremendous simcha that Shavuos was in the yeshivas. You know, the Jewish calendar is studded with happy days, but Shavuos was exceptional; it was the happiest day of the year because that was the day we became the Am Yisroel, the day we were lifted up above, way way above, the nations of the world to become the forever nation.
And it happened by means of Matan Torah, by means of Torah u’mitzvos. That’s our greatness! That’s our pride, our happiness! 讗ַ砖ְׁ专ֵ讬谞讜ּ 诪ַ讛 讟ּ讜ֹ讘 讞ֶ诇ְ拽ֵ谞讜ּ – How lucky we are and how good is our lot, 讜ּ诪ַ讛 讬ָ驻ֶ讛 讬ְ专ֻ砖ָּׁ转ֵ谞讜ּ – and how beautiful is our inheritance. Ooh ah! You can drink down those words again and again and you become intoxicated with happiness.
Intellectual Intoxication
Now, we understand that it’s hard to be intoxicated with happiness all our lives. Human beings have a problem with their emotions and it’s not easy to maintain that high level of excitement all the time. And therefore we shouldn’t blame anybody. You see that the Nevi’im and the Chachomim during Bayis Rishon couldn’t blame the people either; only Hakadosh Baruch Hu saw. 注ַ讚 砖ֶׁ讘ָּ讗 讛ַ拽ָּ讚讜ֹ砖ׁ 讘ָּ专讜ּ讱ְ 讛讜ּ讗 讜ּ驻ֵ专ְ砖ָׁ讛 – He saw that they should have done better, 讗ֲ砖ֶׁ专 诇ֹ讗 讘ָּ专ְ讻讜ּ 讘ַּ转ּ讜ֹ专ָ讛 转ְּ讞ִ诇ָּ讛 – that they weren’t thanking enough; they didn’t understand enough the happiness of having a Torah.
It means that Hashem demands more from us. Such a gift requires more, much more, than even the Nevi’im and Chachomim could imagine. It’s not easy even to comprehend such an ideal but that’s what the Gemara tells us. Hakadosh Baruch Hu said, “It’s good but I’m not satisfied yet.”
Living Up to Being a Yisroel
And that’s an important lesson for us; a great nation has to live up to its greatness. And included in that is an obligation to enjoy this privilege that we have a Torah and to enjoy even more the privilege that we can learn the Torah. It’s an infinite happiness, a tremendous joy to have the Torah. And even though it’s not easy to maintain such a level of excitement forever but all the generations that studied this lesson, 砖ֶׁ诇ֹּ讗 讘ֵּ专ְ讻讜ּ 讘ַּ转ּ讜ֹ专ָ讛 转ְּ讞ִ诇ָּ讛, and made a tremendous effort — like we’re making now, tonight — to try and recapture some of that excitement, they succeeded to a great extent.
And so at least from time to time we must remind ourselves. Try to work on it; spend time reviewing the ideas we said tonight. And although, as I said, it’s not easy to maintain such a high degree of awareness always, but we must understand at least intellectually.
Joyful Meditations
It’s a very important obligation to spend time in our lives meditating, understanding what we have; you have to think about it all from time to time. For instance, when you say, “讗ֲ砖ֶׁ专 讘ָּ讞ַ专 讘ָּ谞讜ּ 诪ִ讻ָּ诇 讛ָ注ַ诪ִּ讬诐,” so once in a while think about what you’re saying. “You chose us, Hashem. You made us Yisroel at Har Sinai and because of that, because of the Torah u’mitzvos, we are given a guarantee, 讻ָּ诇 讬ִ砖ְׂ专ָ讗ֵ诇, without any exception, will be in Olam Haba with You forever and ever.”
And so the great happiness of having a Torah — whether you learn the Torah or don’t learn the Torah enough — everyone in Am Yisroel is expected to think thoroughly about this subject. That’s the primary obligation of a Jew, to thank Hakadosh Baruch Hu that he’s a Jew.
And we have to do it until we become actually happy, actually filled with joy that we are Jews, and we should feel that there’s nothing in the world as great as being a Jew! And you should look down on all the inhabitants, kol yoshvei tevel; all of them are k’mar m’dli. They’re like nothing compared to you. You are recognized by the King of the world as His chosen ones forever because He gave you His Torah, a gift that has no equal among all the prizes and all the treasures of this world. Mah yafah yerushaseinu!
A Day for Gratitude
And Shavuos, that’s the time to think about that more than other days. It’s a life program to study how great it is, how fortunate it is that we have a Torah — everyone in Am Yisroel is expected to think thoroughly about this subject — but Shavuos is the day most set aside for the great happiness of having a Torah. At least once a year when the time comes, don’t be masiach daas from that: How fortunate we became when we stood at the foot of Har Sinai and received the Torah. Because what did Hashem say at that time? 讜ִ讛ְ讬ִ讬转ֶ诐 诇ִ讬 住ְ讙ֻ诇ָּ讛 诪ִ讻ָּ诇 讛ָ注ַ诪ִּ讬诐 – “You, the whole nation, will be for Me a special treasure from all the nations” (Shemos 19:5).
And so this is the day, more than any other day, to review once more these great ideals and understand the happiness that Shavuos means for us. That’s the plain truth; it’s not drush. Shavuos means the infinite happiness and excitement of 讜ְ讗ַ转ֶּ诐 转ִּ讛ְ讬讜ּ 诇ִ讬 诪ַ诪ְ诇ֶ讻ֶ转 讻ֹּ讛ֲ谞ִ讬诐 讜ְ讙讜ֹ讬 拽ָ讚讜ֹ砖ׁ – And you will be for Me a Kingdom of Kohanim and a Holy Nation (ibid. 6).
And so as we’re approaching Matan Torah now, that’s what has to be most on our minds. Other things, smaller things, cheese blintzes, cheese cakes, very good but that’s not what we’re thinking about. Our machshavos are focused on one thing: “Hakadosh Baruch Hu, we’re so grateful to You, 讗ֲ砖ֶׁ专 讘ָּ讞ַ专 讘ָּ谞讜ּ 诪ִ讻ָּ诇 讛ָ注ַ诪ִּ讬诐 讜ְ谞ָ转ַ谉 诇ָ谞讜ּ 讗ֶ转 转ּ讜ֹ专ָ转讜ֹ, for choosing us by giving us the Torah. We’re so happy with the Torah, and we’re going to show You that we’re going to receive the Torah again with the greatest enthusiasm.”
And that’s why it’s the happiest day of the year; because Shavuos is the time of 讛ַ讘ּ讜ֹ讞ֵ专 讘ְּ注ַ诪ּ讜ֹ 讬ִ砖ְׂ专ָ讗ֵ诇 讘ְּ讗ַ讛ֲ讘ָ讛, when Hashem expressed His great love for the Am Yisroel by giving us the gift of Torah u’mitzvos!
Have a Wonderful Yom Tov and Shabbos
Compilation based on tapes: 474 – Thanking for the Torah | 625 – Perfecting the Mitzvos | E-19 – Why the Land Went Lost | E-138 – Jewels for the Beautiful Nation | E-141 – The Most Happy Day | E-257 – Make Use of the Great Gift


